Expat Thanksgiving

 

The Turkey Trot has been run, and the club house is being readied for an a Thanksgiving feast put on by the AISA faculty.  This is a unique event, mainly because we all live on the closed campus of the American International school in Abuja, Nigeria.  Although we met just a few months ago, we are accustomed to collaborating on events just like this via WhatsApp.  This post, of the turkey being put in to roast, began the today's feed at 9:13 am.  

Roasting a turkey this size that only arrived frozen yesterday is no mean feat.  Most of us are new to Nigeria and lack roasting pans with racks, and basic familiar ingredients like celery or cream of mushroom soup.  In fact the preparations began days ago, with various shopping trips around the city looking for yams.

I was fortunate enough to find some old cans of creamed corn from Thailand.  The rims are rusty but their sell-by date is March of next year. I put out an all-call for a cheese grater and had another member of staff offer to lend me hers within minutes.  I feel like I have been to so many stores, looking for this and that, but still my kitchen cupboards are almost bare. 

 I am attempting to make scalloped corn and green bean casserole for our feast.  Mohammed had green beans for sale from his veggie truck making sales in the parking lot. Making french fried onions as a topper is beyond me, but I am adding some local ham-bits I ordered from a local butcher. I considered buying a whole turkey from Michael, the butcher, but I am still getting used to what various cuts of meat look like here, and was afraid of what "whole turkey' actually meant.  Would it arrive with feathers and head still attached?

At 9:49 am, our HS principal posts a picture of how an Australian prepares a Thanksgiving turkey: "Terry's breast have been throughly massaged and he's now going in the oven."  This prompted the question, "He's got a name?" and the reply, "We've become very attached."

An I've become quite attached to the staff here.  We Zoom together, work together, live together, and now celebrate together. I am thankful for this group that started bonding over the long wait for visas and travel plans to Abuja. We bonded across time zones, nationalities and age groups. There is little to compare to the faculty of an international school.  They hit the ground running, look out for each other, and pool their resources.  Daily I have advice and words of experience shared with me.  The fact that I am a veteran teacher with over 20 years of teaching and living overseas doesn't mean I know where to buy sunscreen in Abuja.  I have great respect for those among us that are making this move with small children.  I had little support when mine were young, but I have a feeling that won't be their experience here. Here we have family.  We may not be able to get together the way families back home do, because of the measures put in place to prevent the spread of COVID, but we manage to support each other digitally.

It is nearly time to Google the Celsius equivalent for 375 ° F, put my faux green bean casserole in the oven and head down for cocktail hour at the club house.  We plan to eat outside and share each other's recipes from home.

Mama Africa Market Day

 

I was excited to visit what I believed to be an arts and craft market to get a picture of local culture as well as pick up some decorative items for my apartment in Abuja.  I had visions of something similar to the 'hippy fair' in Brasilia where tourist can pick up leather goods, jewelry, and perhaps a capoeira demonstration.  

The Mama Africa Arts and Crafts, or Jabi Art Market, does not exactly cry out to tourists.  One would hardly take the cluster of shabby canvas covered shacks for a place to buy souvenirs. As one reviewer described it: Excellent works of art and craft can be found here at reasonable prices. However, the area is reminiscent of a transit camp and needs intervention of a befitting premises. Recommended to visit. 

We glanced quickly at the wooden furniture, and dove into the 'camp'.  Jon and I have learned not to show too much interest in items early on, or the vendors will make it difficult for us to move on to other stalls. We also new that prices were 'negotiable', and haggling was the norm.  I have never been too good at this sort of bargaining, and so was careful to point out that I was "just looking".  Each vendor tried their best to get us into their stall, but they in no way aggressive, and gave us space.  

Honestly, I couldn't at first see anything I would buy.  I was more interested in the colors and variety, the basket weaving activity, and staying cool.  I finally decided on a couple of key chains (very necessary!), two baskets (more decorative), and a fan (both decorative and necessary).  I was quite proud of myself for getting the price down 1000 NGN on the baskets, but the fan guy was proving to be quite difficult.  

Only when I had given up and walked away, did he concede to my 'best price' of 1500 NGN.  The win was short lived, for as soon as I got back on our bus, the fan guy came after me with his friend.  They circled the bus looking for me, tapped on the window, and explained to anyone who would listen that they needed more money for the fan.  He was selling for his friend, and his friend wanted more.  I was safe inside the bus, money had already changed hands, surely he would give up.  But he was determined, and even acted out a fight scene with the friend, trying to get my attention.  In hindsight, I should have simply offered a bit more money, another dollar probably would have ended it.

Unfortunately, the business of haggling for a price, detracts from the actual value of the crafts.  I would have rather have learned about the origin and process of the varied pieces, about the artists and their culture, about the way these artisans are treated in Abuja. Next time.

Next we visited the Maitama Farmer's Market.  If you aren't distracted by the armed guard, and large chunks of dried mystery meat, then you can take in the huge variety of fruit and vegetables.  Again, I will use the words of another reviewer: This place is really good, the amazingly healthy veggies and fruits and luxurious colours of their skin is totally worth the drive. You will think the foods are plastic cause of how fresh and good they looked. And here, we were warned, there was no haggling! I found my okra, bananas and limes.  Jon was denied his mangoes (out of season) and tomatoes (he tried to haggle the price down).  

Our final purchases came from a small market store, that sold imported items like British biscuits and American cans of creamed corn.  Jon was happy to find a large jar of honey that we purchased from a sales girl squeezed into a corner of the tight space. Only after walking out did we realize that we had paid over $60! On inspecting the receipt we saw that the honey cost over $30.  Naturally, we tried to take the honey back.  Unfortunately the sales girl had already shoved the large amount of cash into a slot in the safe.  So Jon had to wait until someone else bought the honey's price with cash before she could refund him. 

At the end of the day, I realized that the experience had been more about business tactics, prices and money conversions.  It is hard to look past how much you are spending to what you are getting.  Fortunately we didn't venture out alone, but with a group of veteran overseas teachers.  One wise college, spoke from experience about her last move: " I had to put a conscious stop to the constant converting of local currency into  US dollars in my head when I was out and about.  That was the only way I could enjoy myself in my new surroundings."

Quarantine Dining on Olives & Dates

 

What did I pack for this trip?  A corkscrew, a good knife and a coffee filter holder.  Was I ready for 14 days quarantine in my apartment? It was hard to tell.  I had sent a grocery list ahead for my recently hired house help to buy.  Hopefully my apartment would be decently stocked with sandwich ingredients, breakfast options and even some bottles of wine.  I knew to expect at the very least salt, pepper and Ramen, because the shopping trips to local stores had included me via WhatsApp.  I was feeling quite proud of myself for including items I would readily find abroad in other places I have lived.  I included weights in grams and liters.  And we received two Dominos pizzas on the drive from the airport, to save the trouble of cooking on arrival.

It wasn't until the next morning that I realized that feeding myself for the next 14 days would be a challenge.  The coffee was instant, which I have never understood, the ham some sort of baloney lunch meat, and I could find no peeler for the potatoes and carrots. We found large amounts of fruit, bananas and oranges, that would not last the 2 weeks, along with 5 dozen eggs and a box of 42 packets of ramen. Well, we could snack for a while. 

Our most popular snacks are olives, dates and peanuts.  Something to remember for next time.  I was given the opportunity to have someone run to the store for me, just for a couple of things that I couldn't do without.  I asked for real ground coffee, tonic water and ice cube trays. 

By the time we were 4 days in, Jon was putting all his efforts into acquiring a phone and ordering in.  I was more determined to use all the food in our refrigerator.  What to make?  Lots of side salads, and these basic meals:

• boiled potatoes, hot dogs and baked beans
• rice and garlic chicken
• potato and mortadella frittata 
• ramen noodles with spring onions

I am finding that just about anything is palatable when doused in lime juice and olive oil, sprinkled with salt, pepper and spring onions.

Viewing International Travel thru a COVID Lens

 

I am glad to be able to travel at all, but I do have a new wariness regarding the whole travel process during a pandemic.  Airlines seem to be doing their best to put safety measures into practice, and passengers are trying to comply, yet there is a general air of confusion and chaos to flying these days. 

The first COVID guideline to go by the wayside is WATCH YOUR DISTANCE.  Instead of lining up single file, we are now asked to crowd around a small group of check-in kiosks to get our boarding passes and baggage tickets.  With 14 pieces of luggage, three being oversized, it was near impossible to negotiate the crowd, and social distancing just wasn't happening. The ticket lady helping me asked me to kindly step aside while she entered information and interacted with the display.  It was then impossible to hear what she was saying above the din, so she called me back and pointed out that I needed a visa to enter Ethiopia.  But I'm not going to Ethiopia!

The flight to Chicago was packed to the gills.  I was in the middle seat, trying not to breathe.  The attendants attempt to deplane people by rows had failed miserable, as passengers were eager to get out of this toxic, in-your-face environment.  

Then the real chaos started.  Ethiopian Airlines requires all passengers to visit the desk at the gate for new boarding passes and covid test checks.  But nobody new this and tried to board normally with their original boarding passes.  Furthermore, each country seems to require covid tests within different times of departure, and the attendants at the gate were looking it all up.  You try telling a passenger with limited English that he can't board his plane home because his negative covid test was taken outside the 90 hour window! Things were not going well.  The flight attendant was trying to get people to stand on taped markers for social distancing, only to then send then all over to the smallest desk space you can imagine for re-ticketing. I squeezed in and produced both receipts for post-travel testing to be done upon arrival, and for the 10 extra bags, before we could attempt boarding.

The flight attendants onboard were struggling equally.  For some reason the seat rows had been numbered incorrectly, and we found someone else in our seats.  Someone else was in their seat, and so on.  You can imagine that having 6 rows of passengers all get up with their belongings and change seats was not easy, especially when you are supposed to be socially distancing. 

To my dismay, when finally seated, I found my seat splattered with what could have been food, or something worse.  The window also was smeared with unidentifiable yuck.  I asked the attendant for something to clean it with and found that yet another COVID guideline was being ignored: WASH YOUR HANDS AND SANITIZE AFTER USE.  There was no sanitizer on board, and I was asked to use a blanket to clean my seat.  Fortunately I had brought my own sanitizer and kleenexes, and was able to clean most of it.  The Kleenexes came in handy for a trip to the lavatory later where I found there was no TP either.

I suppose I was lucky that I was allowed on board with a bottle of hand sanitizer, some airlines would confiscate it at security.  This time they confiscated Jon's roll of Duct Tape, with no explanation.

At Addis Ababa airport we watched as a large number of cleaners moved around wiping down seats.  But when we entered the cafe, the tables were crowded together with no elbow room, NO MASKS, and we all had to share the same sugar pot and spoon. 

Some passengers are taking care of themselves and following their own guidelines (or their company's guidelines).  We saw many passengers in full hazmat suits, visors and masks which they never removed for the duration of their travel. 

Touchdown in Abuja was just another opportunity for chaos.  Employees tried to sort everyone out, line them up and check documents. Diplomats in one line, foreigners in another.  But few people took notice, and kept switching to the shortest line. Those without proper Covid papers were sent off to correct this, and then there were more lines for visas and customs. The porters fought over a chance to carry our 14 bags, and we were directed towards the 'declare' room where officials swarmed round and went through all our things.  Outside the traffic made it difficult to navigate our bags to the pickup van.  Once there, we were greeted with a "How was your flight?" and a temperature check. 

After a restful sleep in our apartment, we wake up to more chaos: the kind where you can't find the scissors to open the new adaptor to plug in the electric kettle to make some tea.  Where did our maid stash the toilet paper, 'cause there is none in the bathrooms? How does the gas cooker work? However, this is my chaos, one I understand.  It is of my making.

COVID has created a chaos all of its own, and everyone is trying to make their own peace with it as we travel through this pandemic.  

Armchair Travel: Playful and Edgy!

 

The ability to go new places without leaving my comfy chair has not only become easier with new technology, it has become convenient for this time of pandemic.  It is not uncommon for me to do research on a place before I travel there.  However, for this coming move to Nigeria, I was able to do so much better than download a "to bring" list before beginning to pack.  It all started back in early summer with emails from my new coworkers. Some tidbits: " I have long been itching to meet with you." and "Until August, and hoping that COVID-19 relaxes its muscles soon, take good care of yourself. Stay strong and safe!"  And a later communication, "I hope this email finds you enjoying a good cup of tea or coffee," as a follow up to several Zoomed staff meetings and WhatsApp conversations. 

The staff have become a close knit group.  We commiserate with each other's visa trials, and celebrate final travel plans.  There is a continual sharing of information via our phone app: packing tips, grocery lists, travel requirements, etc. I have little need to look something up, because we are all in this together, and sharing is the name of the game.  And this is as close as it gets because, when we finally arrive we will be in quarantine, social distancing and busy working.

Due to COVID, our initial tour of the campus was made virtual by way of a video created by the school.  We received both a bird's eye view of the housing, and an inside look of the school.  Later our principal offered to give us a personal tour of our apartment via Google Meet.  If we had any questions left as to what to bring, this answered them.  We talked voltage, outlets, storage, appliances, and measurements.  This really contrasted with other moves where we have begged for this sort of information knowing that there is so much needed to make a household function.

Another contrast was the ability to connect with and hire some household help prior to arrival.  I offered employment and received a polite acceptance, "OK Ma, thank you!" via text message. This lady will be doing my grocery shopping for me during quarantine.  I was asked to make a list for her to shop for.  Knowing that every country has its own unique products (lessons learned from trying to shop for Thanksgiving dinner in either Sofia or Kuwait!), I decided to visit a local supermarket online and check availability of everyday items like wine.  I found the website difficult to navigate, and searching for items like bread was impossible.  I also got distracted by the descriptions of the items, which often omitted the size/weight, and included glaring mistakes such calling white wine red.  I thought I would close this blog with one such description which ensured me that my move to Africa will certainly be colorful, if not playful and edgy!

DECLAN WHITE WINE Declan white wine is incredibly juicy, very fruity, full bodied rich taste. Declan white wine is easy drinking, ripe berry and jam. Declan wine is soft and smooth. Greatly enjoyed when chilled. This new wine has a perfect balance of sweetness. Declan white wine pairs well with lively foods and friends. Declan white wine combines its sophisticated taste perfectly with the playful fruity taste. If your all about the perfect combination of playful and edgy. Declan white wine is ideal for all celebration, dining and events.

Timeline of a Tooth

Three root canals on the same tooth!  One was incomplete, one a lie, and one a retreatment.  I was quick to go to the dentist this time around, but found it hard to believe that the same tooth that had had a root canal procedure, x-rays and a crown would be bothering me again.  I was asked about the tooth's history and wasn't sure anyone would believe the whole story, but here it is.

The pain began on the road from Wisconsin.  We were taking Sam on a college tour the summer before his senior year.  At the time we were living in Sofia, and didn't have a dentist in the US I could call for this emergency.  And it was an emergency!  I finally got into a chain and related the experience in the facebook post below:

Anne Jahnke is feeling pained.
July 16, 2015 · Alden ·

I had a root canal today... And experienced much of what is wrong with US healthcare. The pain came on quickly and the local dentists were either booked or closed. I got in at a national chain about 1 hr away. I arrived in great pain and was given forms to fill out, a TV to watch, but nothing for the pain. After waiting 2 hrs in a freezing room, enduring unnecessary tests and a lady trying to sell me a $150 toothbrush, I finally saw a dentist. Only after deciding I needed two crowns and a root canal, did he give me something for the pain. The most sympathetic person was the clerk who swiped my credit card. They were as anxious as I was for it to be over, and see me gone before the nova cane wore off and I realized that after 5 hrs and $1000, I was still in pain.

I had decided to get the two crowns done back in Bulgaria, where everything is cheaper.  My experience with Bulgarian dentistry was a story in itself, you can read about it in the blog post: Close Please. I distinctly remember being told that the tooth in question did not need a crown, and vaguely remember being sent to get an x-ray to prove it.  Since most of it was done with limited English, old Soviet technology in dimly lit echoing buildings, I can't be sure what was done. 

My next position in Kuwait came with dental insurance, and I decided to take advantage of this and finally get a crown put on the tooth which had been making do with a temporary filling for over a year now. We had little choice in dentists, as our insurance was only carried by one clinic in the city, and of their dentists, all were booked up except one.  I soon found out why this particular dentist had vacancies!  When I inquired about the crown, he asked me to close the door and lowered his voice.  Apparently the insurance didn't cover crowns, so he would call it a root canal.  I would get my crown, but I couldn't tell anyone.  He wasn't really a rule follower, and I rather suspect he had never been to dental school.  I understand why the Bulgarian technology didn't pick up on the fact that one whole root of the tooth had been missed in the original treatment, but this last dentist was just lazy, .. and negligent. 

Since moving to Minnesota I have used both our family dentist and dental insurance a fair amount. They do a great job and quickly found the missed root that was causing me pain.  I now have a temporary filling in the crown.  However, this is not the end of the saga.  Since I have now taken a position in Nigeria, my insurance will be changing at the end of the month, before I can finish the procedure.  I might once again be going overseas with the need to find a friendly dentist who can finish the job. 

I gave an abridged version of this to the last dentist retreating my tooth.  Her comment was, "It's a good thing you have  those memories to help you recall the time line of events of the tooth!" To which I responded, "Good for something, but not for my dental health!"  I could do with a few less memories of this sort in future.

A Flying Cigar and Strong Coffee

Caixa Postal 4216 -ZC-05,

Rio de Janeiro, GB., Brazil

February 20th, ‘64

Dear Mother and All,

No news yet though Audrey wondered if she would make it through the night two days ago. We are definitely hoping for a girl, especially as we are having real difficulty in selecting a suitable boy’s name. Michael is quite certain that the ‘likkle baby’ will be a girl. If we do get a boy and he turns out to be no worse than either Michael or Andrew, we shall be more than satisfied.

It was Monday when we finally got out to see Dr Kerr and we couldn’t help smiling when, after questions and examination, he decided that the baby should have come on the 13th! That was the day we travelled from Cuiaba to Rio. We left Cuiaba at about 7am and reached Rio at about 7pm. We could have come on a faster plane but we decided to save the 25,000 cruzeiros that represented the difference (about 8 pounds). We came on a rather old plane that resembles a flying cigar and which seems to bump a bit more than its cousin the DC-3. We had fairly bad flying weather the whole way and Michael felt sick on a number of the descents. However, everything palled into insignificance compared with the storm we encountered near Rio. Had this been my first flight in an aircraft, I think I would have been really scared. We pitched, rolled, rocked and jumped like a little boat in a rough sea. People seemed to jump up in their seats despite the fixing of seat belts. The pilot’s door swung open and it was reassuring to see him calmly smoking. Obviously he wasn’t worried. When we reached Rio, the airport was closed because of bad weather and so we circled for a while. When we finally got a taxi and reached the Alto House through Rio’s traffic congestion, we were very tired and very hungry. This cheap flight only serves strong coffee and our last meal had been at 10:30 am.

As usual the boys have taken the move in their stride and settled here very happily. The house is really quite empty at the moment and so we are enjoying the extra space and stretch around the house. Besides ourselves there are the Leidtkes and Mullens and two single fellows.

We will need your prayers especially for the boys during these potentially unsettled times. Michael won’t like it very much when I go back to Kaiwana alone. Then there will be the further traveling - we cross the Andes four times! - and the stay in Peru. We’ve discovered that in times like this there is no alternative but to spend extra time with them, because we are their security rather than some special bed or room. Will close now and go to bed.

All our love, JAMA * (*John, Audrey, Michael, Andrew??)

C.P. 2221

Brasilia, D.F.

April 16th, ‘67

Dear Mother and All,

It is Sunday afternoon here, the children are abed and the lake, in one of its loveliest moods, lies before me through the windows. The children seem to have settled very happily here. Anne, after a long time in the wilderness when she seemed to be so often fighting and contrary, is like her old self again. Her diction, though full of childish errors, is so animated and her eyes open so wide that folk just sit and watch her with fascination. Andrew has still not begun to grow. Since Anne now has a trike, Michael and Andrew got a bike last Saturday. The only chore is transporting it up and down stairs. We live on the top floor and there is no elevator - I mean, lift. Audrey is kept busy with teaching the two boys in the morning and running the apartment. Life continues busy, but it is a help to have a stable home life.

The Group bought some land off the North Wing some years ago and now we know that it really belongs to the National Park and that the original sale was illegal. Legal squabbles could continue for years. Meanwhile we stand either to lose the plot with no remuneration or to be charged with a further illegal sale if we try to sell it again. It is very difficult to know what we should do. We don’t need the land now, but we would really like to recoup our investment.

About the end of the month, you should receive from me a glass case with a pair of broken glasses, at least one lens is broken. It is difficult to replace the lens out here and so I hit on the idea of sending them home. My glasses situation is fairly desperate since I am using a very old pair with scratched lenses and wobbly frames that have to be glued now and again. These particular glasses were broken just after Conference on the volleyball court.



Love to all, John